Back to Work

Well, my maternity leave is over. :( It's been really great hanging out with Kirby for 2.5 months, but unfortunately, we're not really in a place that would allow me to be a stay at home mom. Actually, we could do it, but it would be really tight with just one paycheck. Besides, as much as I love my little dude, I definitely need some adult time.

We dropped Kirby off at the day care center today for about 4 hours - mainly so that Kirby isn't thrown into a full day with strangers but also because we needed to deal with some official business (getting our passcodes, dropping off supplies, etc). I was fine when we first dropped him off (he was asleep), but as I talked to one of the teachers about things we need to do, all the babies started to cry. And not just fussing..... hardcore crying! One kid even looked up at me and had these huge crocodile tears running down his face. :( One teacher was talking to me and the other was feeding a baby while rocking two others in bouncy seats with her feet (there are 8 infants and 2 teachers). I know they're good at multi-tasking, but it just broke my heart to know that Kirby would be laying on the floor crying, waiting for his turn to be comforted. :(

As the front desk person worked on setting up our passcode, I wandered over to the infant 2 room to see what was going on. I wanted to look in on Kirby once more before we left, and I saw him laying in his crib, wide awake, staring at the ceiling and snacking on his hand. I immediately started crying and had to quickly leave the building. I didn't realize it would be so difficult. Tomorrow's really going to suck! :(

Gary & I ran around doing errands (looking for a Wii), read magazines at a bookstore, ate Indian food for lunch, and grocery shopped before picking up Kirby. When we got there, he was eating. Apparently, he had a really good day - just hung out in various spots in the room and just enjoyed looking at his new surroundings. He didn't sleep much (about 30 minutes) so I was prepared for a meltdown when we got home.

I fed him just a bit when we got home and he completely passed out! I let him sleep on me for 3 hours b/c I couldn't bring myself to put him down.

I gotta say, we really lucked out with such an amazing baby. He's generally a laid back, happy baby. He's such a sweet heart! All last week he had a cold and even when you could tell he wasn't feeling well, he still had interest in playing and smiling. I feel blessed to have such an amazing little guy in my life and I'm sad that I'm not going to see him as much every day because he's changing so much and every day it seems like he's able to do something different.

Here's the latest video of him - he's talking to his new baby animals book.

First cold

Kirby has his first cold. :( We noticed it Saturday night when he was making more noise than usual when sleeping. During the day on Sunday, he seemed a little out of the norm, but around dinner time it was obvious that he was sick b/c he sounded congested and had a bit of snot.

We took him to the ped on Monday and she said that it's just a typical cold - nothing to do but wait 7-10 days for it to go away. The only thing we can really do to help is to saline/bulb his nose 3 times a day and use a humidifier when he's sleeping. Being a first time mom, it's weird to experience your baby being sick. It's really hard to see him struggling to breathe and to be so miserable. :(

Since Monday, it's been pretty typical - snotty, running nose, coughing, sneezing, and sleeping a lot. Today was a little different - he slept a LOT today. I'm hoping there's nothing new going on - just that he needed a lot of rest to get over it. A few hours ago, he had a coughing fit and then ended up throwing up. The ask-a-nurse doesn't think that it's anything to be worried about right now b/c we're not seeing anything else that's a "warning sign".

Hopefully, he'll start to feel better soon b/c ugh - he's going to start daycare on Tuesday and I'd hate for him to feel so poorly when his life is turned upside down by being with strangers all day.

Here's a photo of him from this afternoon. Even though he's feeling like crap, he still has a smile for his mommy. :)

What do you think?

Here are a few baby photos of The Miller family. Who do you think Kirby resembles?

Kirby:


Theresa:


Gary:

2 month appointment

Kirby had his 2 month appt today. We were looking forward to seeing how much he's grown...... and he's huge! His weight is 14lbs 2 oz (95%) and length is 25 3/4" (97%). He gained just under 4 pounds in one month!

We had to wait a bit before our appt and we discovered something interesting. When I went to check in Kirby, the front desk person said that another mother wanted to meet us. Apparently, our sons keep getting mixed up or it's assumed that they're twins. They were born 2 days apart (Kirby's older), both have the same last name, both mothers work at Duke, and both kids are going to the same preschool in a few weeks. The other mother first discovered it when she called the preschool and said "Mrs. Miller" - they immediately said "Kirby?" The same thing happened to her today when she checked in for their son's 2 month appt. Oddly, Kirby has never been confused with her son - maybe b/c Kirby isn't a common name. *shrug* It's kinda neat that we met them and have such a great story since they'll be buds at school. :)

Anyway, after we went back for the check-up, they had us take all of Kirby's clothes off while waiting for the dr. This was the first time that Kirby really had a chance to stare at his reflection in a mirror - and he loved it. :) I've tried showing him a mirror as I walk around the house with him, but he seemed uninterested. I guess he needed a more relaxed environment to appreciate the mirror.

Other than getting his stats, he was checked out and he's, of course, doing really well. :) Thankfully, Gary went with me b/c Kirby had to get 3 shots in the thighs. Ugh - I eventually need to get over it, but while Kirby was getting the shots, I had to stand in the corner with my back turned and my ears plugged. Poor little dude! He cried for a bit, but fell asleep on the way home.

I let him nurse and sleep on me all day b/c I wanted to comfort him as much as possible and I didn't want to move him too much since his legs were sore. He was pretty pitiful when he slept - making noises like he was in pain. :( I didn't think he felt warm, but Gary thought he felt a bit warm so he took Kirby's temperature. It was our first use of the rectal thermometer - which isn't fun for anyone. Turns out that Kirby did have a bit of a temperature (101.2) so we gave him some Tylenol in hopes that it would help him feel a bit better. Hopefully he sleeps ok tonight and feels better tomorrow.

Rolling over pt 2

We put Kirby in our bed this morning and he rolled over 3 times! Gary & Kirby came upstairs to wake me up and Gary laid Kirby on our mattress while I got dressed. Rather quickly, it looked like he was trying to roll from back to front. He was almost over, but his arm was in the way - like a kick stand. He was stuck like that for about a minute before Gary helped him all the way over onto his stomach.

Kirby hung out like that a bit, rocking back and forth, and the next thing we knew, he rolled over! Gary put him back on his stomach to see if he'd do it again, and he did!

We were bummed that we didn't have the camera, so Gary ran downstairs to get it in hopes that Kirby would do it one more time. During that time, Kirby started to get annoyed and I was afraid that it wouldn't happen. However, Kirby performed on command again and we finally got it on camera! Unfortunately, our computer is in the shop so we won't be able to post the video until the middle of next week. I'll post it as soon as possible b/c I know there are grandparents that are eager to see it. :)

ETA: here's the video!